The BIG Topic- How can you increase the size of your penis?

THE BIG ANSWER!!!

Most males have no need to do this. Men are more concerned about their own penis size than their partners are, but the concerns are most often unfounded. If the penis is 2 inches or longer it is big enough to perform any sexual activity from procreation to pleasuring your partner. Technique is more important than size. 

If you think there is a problem with your genitals, check with a urologist. More than likely, there is nothing wrong. 

Boys' penises start to grow during puberty achieving between 2 and 5 inches (5 - 13 cm) in length. They will continue growing until approximately the age of 20. If you are under 20 you may still experience some growth naturally. The average adult man will have a penis size of 6 - 7 inches (15 - 18 cm) erect. 

The oversize penises seen in pornography are not the standard. The producers seek out actors who are above average size. Some of them are accidents of nature, just like having a freakishly large nose. Others are not real. Fake body parts and trick photography are common in porn production. 

Literary descriptions are also generally inaccurate. Writers on the subject tend to be men; they also tend to describe their wishes rather than reality. "Letters to magazines" are an example of such fiction, as is much of what is written on the Internet. Men often lie about penis size to flatter themselves. This makes surveys less than reliable. 

The following are the known enlargement methods: 

Surgical

Surgical penis enlargement usually takes the form of implants for increasing girth or severing of the ligament that attaches the base of the penis to the pelvis for added length. This is major surgery done on an in-patient basis with general anesthesia. As any surgery, this is risky. The results are not always what people expect. A common side effect of the ligament severing is inability to control direction of the penis. Sometimes during surgery nerves can be severed and all sensation in the penis can be lost completely. 

Generally, doctors will only do this in cases of severe deformity or trauma. 

Non-Surgical

Non-surgical enlargement methods are various forms of stretching by hand, mechanical device or attachment of weights and the use of vacuum pumps. All of these carry the risk of severe trauma and potential loss of sexual function if done improperly or excessively. The inner tissues of penis, the corpora cavernosa, are fairly delicate and can be damaged. The gains are seldom dramatic. 

Hand stretching, also called jelquing, is probably the most harmless, as a person will likely stop before hurting himself. However, there is no medical evidence that it is effective for anything beyond pleasuring oneself. 

Traction by use of weights or mechanical devices can add some length, but it is not a permanent effect and will reverse if the practice is discontinued. Excessive traction can tear penile tissue which may negatively affect the ability to achieve erections and deform the penis. Also, if the attachment is too tight it can impair blood circulation. This can lead to scarring, loss of sensation, and, in extreme cases, necrosis of tissue, which requires surgery to treat. Untreated, it can be life-threatening. 

Vacuum pumps do not produce a permanent enlargement effect either. They are really just sex toys. They can, however, cause permanent deformation of the penis due to scarring if the suction is strong enough to break blood vessels. 

Pharmaceutical

There are no pills, creams, powders, or drops that will make a penis grow larger or longer. The emails offering these are scams and the advertisements are lies. These "medicines" are usually not tested for safety, either. At best, there will be no effect whatsoever. At worst, you can develop an allergic reaction or get poisoned with substandard ingredients. 

Dietary

There are no "miracle foods" that affect penis size. Vegetables are good for you, but for completely unrelated reasons. 

Other considerations

It should be noted that one thing that affects perceived penis size is excess body weight. Having "extra padding" will conceal some of the length of a penis. Getting some exercise and improving your general physical fitness is the best way to improve your sexual performance and length. A healthy diet would definitely be helpful in this. 

Masturbation does not affect penis size one way or the other. The penis is not a muscle and cannot be exercised.

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Oral Sex Tips

The words oral sex are so shocking to some people, we couldn't put them on the front of this magazine. But they can't keep us from delivering the nitty-gritty on this sexy treat.

No matter who is going down on whom, the goal is to make it as pleasure filled as possible. But since hardly anyone talks about it, it's tough to get the good, juicy tips you need to make it mind-blowing. Well, at Cosmo we've never been afraid of doing the dirty work for you. So here are the best tricks for giving your guy lip lovin'. Oh, and some for you to pass along to him, so he gives as good as he gets.

"Invisible oral" can boost your pleasure.

A shocking number of women have trouble mentally letting go and enjoying oral. Sound like you? Try keeping the lights off so you can't see him. You'll have fewer distractions and be able to focus.

There's a gag-proof way to go deep.

Here's a trick that gives him the illusion that you're taking him all the way in: Place the tip of your tongue on the roof of your mouth. Then let his member hit the underside of your tongue.

You should have him at hello.

A Cosmo poll found that 34 percent of guys say they wish a girl would surprise them with oral when they walk in the door. Tell him to text you when he's almost home, then ambush him.

Suction isn't just for hickies.

Many women have complained to our experts that they have a hard time getting off while he's down south because their guy doesn't use enough pressure. Ask him to switch up his moves and try sucking on your clitoris instead—it provides a more intense pressure.

Your hands can take it to the next level.

One Cosmo sex poll found that guys say their favorite thing is when a woman uses her mouth and hands on their package at the same time. Stack one hand on top of the other on his shaft, and gently twist in opposite directions. At the same time, flick your tongue—like a snake—over the tip.

You're probably missing a spot.

Here's a secret erogenous zone that you should definitely hit while you're down there: Trail your tongue down his shaft to the area between his testicles and the base. Purse your lips together, and lightly suck on the patch of skin. It's packed with nerve endings, so any attention you give it will feel heavenly.

Multitasking leads to more Os for you.

Our experts say that being stimulated in multiple areas will help a woman reach climax more quickly. So while his tongue is at work, have him play with your nipples. In the beginning, he should softly stroke your tips, but as you get closer, he can squeeze.

69 isn't truly amazing until you've tried this.

Lie side-by-side, with your head near his penis. As you both lick, let your hands massage each other's booties—there are large muscles there, so rubbing them will make for an even greater release.

Cooling down can be very hot.

Your temperature rises slightly when you're aroused, so anything cool will be a pleasurable jolt to your senses. Point a fan in your direction so that while he's between your legs, you're feeling both warm from his mouth and a cool breeze. The combo is unexpected, and anything surprising can send you over the edge.

A vice-grip can be nice.

The ridge of his penis—where the tip meets the shaft—is very sensitive to touch. Cover your teeth with your lips, and place them around that ridge like a vice. Apply firm pressure—like how you squeeze fruit—then release and repeat. This movement perks up the nerves there and then lets them relax, which can feel really good.

Sometimes thinking dirty is a bad idea.

The primary reason women give sex therapists for not wanting their guy down there is they worry they smell. Your guy probably loves your aroma, but you can eliminate that concern by taking a quick half-shower before a date. You will feel much fresher and won't worry about a funky fragrance.

He wants to pretend he's a bike seat.

You don't have to be on your back when you're on the receiving end of oral. Have him lie down, and then put your privates over his mouth. This gives you some control over the pace and motion, making it easier for you to orgasm. And experts tell us it can be erotic for a man to have your coochie that up close and personal.

There's a digital version of oral.

Here's a unique way to give his frenulum—the tiny bump on the underside of his penis where the shaft meets the tip—some special attention: Place the tip of your finger on it, then take his shaft (along with your finger) into your mouth. As you move your mouth up and down, rub your finger over the F-spot.

Feast his eyes.

You probably already know that guys are extremely visual, but it can be hard for him to get a decent view while you're down there lavishing his penis with love. Place a standing mirror next to you so he can check you out. The combo of feeling and seeing you will blow (pun intended) his mind.

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Get a Brazilian.
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Conduct a taste test.
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